Karrueche Complex

12/13/2014

THE KARRUECHE KOMPLEX

*VALGAR LANGUAGE AHEAD*

I usually don't do this but...lol < Don't you get annoyed when people say that. I guess that's how I feel about Karrueche. I'm not going to sit here an recap her entire relationship with Chris Brown or place blame all over the place. I'm just going to outline the lesson all single black women need to get from this experience.

Karrueche, WTF?!?! That's what we were all thinking when Chris cheated on her with Rihanna. Everyone was like, GIRL WE TOLD YOU! Yet, Karrueche believed Chris would come back and he did. But...He also brought problems with him when he came back.

VIDEOS: The case of the Ex


The red flags were there. NEXT.

What I did like about Karrueche at that time was she didn't air her laundry to everyone. She stayed pretty mute about the whole situation and she tired to work it out behind close doors.

She acted very much like a lady in how she proceed to move forward after their breakup(s). Yet, as soon as she appeared to be moving on, Rihanna dumped Chris, and he was running back to be with Karrueche. There was really little time in between for either of them to work, separately, on improving the issues in their lives.

We have all been there, in love with that one guy who makes us his girlfriend, tells the world about us, appearing to do everything right but secretly, he's cheating. He always been cheating and when you find out, he has a million excuses why he cheated YOU out of his love, affection, and your time. But, you give him chance after chance and he still cheats.

Like the saying goes, "You'll never been good enough for a man who isn't ready."

IE KARRUECHE COMPLEX: I KNOW HE LOVES ME, EVEN THOUGH HE'S CHEATING ON ME. I'M GOING TO STAY BECAUSE MY LOVE IS ENOUGH FOR THE BOTH OF US. HE'LL CHANGE EVENTUALLY.

Some would say Chris is conditioned by his lifestyle but I believe that's an excuse. He has countlessly used that excuse to continue his horrible behavior towards Karrueche in their relationship. She probably believed as some point she deserved it because she fell in love with a celebrity.

Yet, honey...You do not deserve that because he encouraged you to fall for him and failed to be a man of value. You failed to let him go when his Mr. Representative left the building...You should of went with him. I believe it would of saved you a lot of tears.

I'm not saying I'm perfect but I'm outlining to the women reading this...notice the red flags. You can't change someone and you shouldn't have to sit around waiting for them to change. He is who he is when you meet him (3 months will tell you everything).

As for the public announcement that was plain childish. We didn't need to know the real...it was none of our business. But since you put it out there: As for the numerous women that's fuck boy shit. Fuck boy: Grown ass man giving out community dick! As for the issues before the relationship, get Olivia Pope or Iyanla in there, and FIX IT.

LADIES, "RIDE OR DIE":
YOU ARE NOT AUDITIONING FOR A RAP VIDEO!!!! THIS IS A RELATIONSHIP. - Sonja Sky

Generally speaking, there are two people who have to sacrifice in a relationship. For men, it's a monetary invest to gain a women who is soulfully committed. Been that way for years. Yet, when a women is fed up she will seek good treatment else where.

As for Drake, he's not slick, he's a womanizer and tells women what they want to hear while he remains unemotionally available. He strings women along, taking them from other men {especially Chris} befriending you and stabbing you behind your back. He's in sporting fish mode...capturing women with insecurities only to throw them back in when he's done making matters worse. Eventually, Drake grows tired or realizes she wants more and leaves them as quick as he got them. Drake doesn't love these girls, he's suffering from his own insecurities, and trying to find himself. He has daddy issues that money can't buy lol. Leave both of them in their miserable condition.

Don't air your break up on social media. That is plain messy.

LIFE HACK:
Read between the lines. If you break up numerous times it probably wont work. If a man has issues of his past that keep reoccurring in his future...then you might want to reconsider a relationship with that person. I think Karrueche said it best on her IG post.

FINAL WORDS, GIRLLLL BYE! #ByeFelicia and #ByeFelipe

More on Felipe: http://instagram.com/byefelipe 

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This blog is NOT geared toward sexual orientation or gender classification. This blog is based solely on the blog authors experience and research. This blog is geared toward promoting a mixture of masculine and feminine attire and with an integrated genderless lifestyle.

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